Have you ever been in the audience when a photographer comes on stage with a big sign in the background that says something super sexy like “The secret to book 50 weddings in a year” and you’re on the edge of your seat. You KNOW this seminar you just paid $150 for is going to be a game changer. You have three G2 pens for color coding because you’re gonna note the hell out of this seminar and then the speaker opens their mouth to say “The secret is… THERE IS NO SECRET!!!” And then they laugh like ohhh how clever, did I fool you? Has this ever happened to you? Whenever it happens to me, it takes all I have to not stand up and start to diva out on the speaker.
Well, I am happy to tell you, that will NOT be happening to you today. I did not just make a super sexy title and then wait for people to click on it so I could disappoint them. No Sir. You’re here and I’m gonna let. this. mic. drop.
Let’s start here:
Have you ever had a new guy friend? And you’ve properly friend zoned him but then you saw him ordering a Diet Doctor Pepper and oh my goodness, that’s YOUR favorite drink! And then he quoted Little Women and what do you know, that’s YOUR favorite book!!! And then you saw him at the open mic night at that random coffee shop you thought only you knew about! And then before you knew it, you guys were just dating! Like, it just happened. It must have been meant to be. We’ve all had that happen… we’re dating someone, someone asks us how we met and you say “I don’t know, we were friends, and then it just… happened!” *BIGSMILE*.
Well I’m here to tell you, it didn’t just happen. It took a LOT of effort on his part to not only make it happen, but to make it happen in a way that made you think it was all serendipity. Girl, he KNEW Diet Doctor Pepper was your drink so he ordered it to have something in common with you. He read Little Women knowing it was your favorite book!! He overheard you mention open mic night to your friend and made sure he was also there.
Ewww so you’re saying these guys are stalker creeps?? No. Not even a little. They just simply care enough to pay attention. They named their target audience (you) and they did some market research. Maybe they Googled you, but there’s a reason Google when separated says “GO OGLE”. That’s the day we live in now so let’s just accept that one. Ain’t no millennial born who hasn’t Googled someone. But if a guy reads some Alcott because he wants to gain insight into my heart, by all means Sir, sweep me off my feet.
Years and years ago… a lifetime ago, I decided I REALLY wasn’t interested in someone. Nope Nope Nope. He tried to make me laugh and I would give a wry smile. He tried to ask for my number, I told him I didn’t have a cell phone. Then one day, I came into work and he was on the B&H website, paying no attention to me… and do you know what happened? I excitedly sat down next to him and said “ARE YOU GETTING A CAMERA?! I HAVE THE CANON XSI! I JUST GOT THE 50! WHAT LENSES DO YOU HAVE? I WANT THE 70-200 SO BAD!” It was night and day and all he did was find out I was an aspiring photographer.
That is the secret to marketing.
That is the mind set you need to have about your clients.
If someone asks your client “How did you find your photographer?” you want their answer to look like this:
“Well I was at the Royal Palms and we absolutely love that venue and we saw this wedding book on the table there and the images were just so romantic. And then later I went in for a dress fitting and I saw a photo on the wall from the SAME photographer. Well I was in such a rush that I left without grabbing the photographer’s name, but it didn’t matter because I saw her on Instagram later when I did a search for #desertweddings and I was like “Okay, we have to book her, this was clearly meant to be.”
Was it meant to be? Sure maybe. Was it serendipitous? No. The photographer put in money and effort to have a book sent to the Royal Palms, then later had to network with the dress vendor to have her image there as well, and then she had to keep up with her Instagram posts to make sure her images were close to the top of the feed for the hashtag her ideal client followed. We want our clients to find us in a way that makes it seem like it was meant to be, but really it’s the result of research and effort. Take what you know about your ideal client and use it to sweep them off their feet.
Can I let you in on a secret? I’ve been wanting to write this post for a really long time.
We are at day 35 tomorrow friends! So I will see you tomorrow for day 35: Things I learned from Taylor Swift!
Hey. Do you mind if I tell you a story? One you might not have heard. All the elements in your body were forged many many millions of years ago in the heart of a faraway star that exploded and died. That explosion scattered those elements across the desolations of deep space. After so, so many millions of years, these elements came together to form new stars and new planets. And on and on it went. The elements came together and burst apart, forming shoes and ships and sealing wax and cabbages and kings. Until, eventually, they came together to make you. You are unique in the universe. There is only one of you. And there will never be another.